We have taken a look at several orientations.
There is the spectrum of Kink to Vanilla (and everything in between.)
There is the spectrum of Gender Orientation (and all the possibilities there.)
There is the spectrum of Polyamorous to Monogamous (and all the funny quirks of that.)
And finally, there is the wild and wide variety of Sexual Orientations.
All of these things are components of who you are. We as human beings are extremely complicated, and there are so many components to a person’s personality; (all of which determine important aspects of who you are.)
This can be beautiful and fun, but it can also also make you feel helpless. I know a lot of people who worry that they are “so weird that they will never find anyone who fits them.” I understand that. I used to feel that way. Everyone fit with me in one or two ways, but not completely. All I can say is that these days, with the Internet, there is hope.
To quote a friend of mine:
“You may think you are hopelessly weird because you can only get off if you are fucking a guy in a donkey costume with a vibrating strap-on. But honey- with the Internet you can find someone who wants to be that donkey.”
Take it from a pansexual guy in a girl’s body who is kinky beyond all reason and polyamorous by nature: If I found someone who fits with me, anyone can find a match. Good luck to all those still looking.